every pregnancy app
forgot about you.him.

belay is the trail guide for partners — from first heartbeat to first birthday. ai-coached. always in your corner.

he wants to show up for you. he just needs the map. belay is the trail guide that meets him where he is.

28 days free. no credit card needed.

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who are you?

92 weeks.

from first heartbeat to first birthday. most apps cover 40 weeks. belay covers both halves of the journey.

every pregnancy app is built for her. what about you? he wants to help. he just doesn't know how.

you want to help. you just don't know where to start. he's not going to download a pink pregnancy app. and he shouldn't have to.

nobody prepared you for this. that changes now. there's finally an app that meets him where he is. and it's actually good.

a trail guide. an ai coach. a toolkit built for you.

your trail gear

four guided tools for the moments that matter most.

most apps give you information. belay gives you something to do with it.

trailhead values

unlocks week 1

define what matters before the trail gets steep. your values shape every ranger conversation.

summit plan

unlocks week 28

your birth preferences, your way. pain management, first moments, feeding, backup plans — all in one place.

trail markers

unlocks week 28

evidence-based medical decisions with AAP, WHO, and ACOG sources. share with your birth team.

base camp plan

unlocks week 30

your postpartum survival plan. sleep shifts, visitor boundaries, meal strategy, mental health — built before baby arrives.

The Ranger — your AI trail coach

the ranger

your trail coach for the hard questions. a trail coach for the questions he's afraid to ask.

not generic tips — real conversations about what's happening right now, in your week, with your situation. every question he's embarrassed to google, every scenario he hasn't prepared for — answered by an AI that actually knows his week.

Ranger helping a partner open up — 'we haven't had a real conversation in a while'
The Ranger

the ranger

ai trail coach · available 24/7

reads your birth plan answers and checks in after the appointments that matter

notices when your mood dips three days in a row — and reaches out before you ask

builds personalized checklists from your situation, not a generic template

"what do i say when she's in pain?" "is this normal at week 28?" "how do i install the car seat?"
"we haven't really talked in a while" "how do i bring up how i'm feeling?" "what does she actually need right now?"
A warm campfire scene in the mountains — the Ranger's domain

some questions need a campfire, not a search engine.

trail gear

The trail — trimester progress bar with weekly waypoints mapped out

weekly waypoints

know exactly what's happening this week. your baby, your partner, what you can actually do. not a textbook — a trail guide. every week, he'll know exactly what's happening — your baby, how you're feeling, and what he can actually do to help.

92 weeks. every one mapped.

emergency beacon

warning signs, emergency numbers, what to do — all in one place. when it matters, you won't have to think. works offline. he'll know exactly when to call the doctor — so you don't have to worry about whether he'll freeze. warning signs, numbers, action steps. works offline.

one tap. no searching.

Emergency Beacon — when to go to the hospital, when to call your provider
Weather Check — 'how's the weather been in your head this week?' with mood options
Postcard — week 30, 'no one but you' — words of affirmation for your partner

weather check postcards

quick mood check-ins. trend tracking. crisis resources if you need them. because partners struggle too — and nobody checks on you. weekly words of affirmation sent to his phone — the right things to say when he doesn't know how. help him help you.

30 seconds. every day. the words you wish he'd say.

the trail doesn't end at delivery.

52 weeks of postpartum guidance — sleep training, solid food prep, milestones, and mental health check-ins. real trail tips for the hardest part of the journey. 52 weeks of postpartum guidance. sleep training, milestones, mental health support. your partner will have real, actionable advice long after everyone stops checking in.

Postpartum trail tips — sleep training, solid food prep, actionable advice for new parents

backpack

your readiness dashboard. artifact progress, saved checklists, mood trends — everything in one place.

campfire circle

an anonymous community of partners on the same trail. share experiences, ask questions, know you're not alone.

daily nudges

smart notifications that know your week. waypoint unlocks, mood check-ins, and ranger follow-ups — always timely, never spammy.

field notes

60 evidence-based reference cards — from "is this normal?" to "what do I do now?" — with sources from AAP, WHO, and ACOG.

the full journey

pregnancy

after birth

40 weeks
52 weeks

first heartbeat

birth day

first birthday

most apps cover the left half. belay covers both.

your baby this week

what's growing, what's changing, and all the weird-cool stuff happening.

how she's feeling how you're feeling

the real stuff — symptoms, emotions, what she might not say out loud. real talk about what's happening in your body and mind this week.

what you can do what he can do

actual moves. not "be supportive" — specific things that actually help this week. specific actions, not generic advice. things that actually help this week.

the descent

most apps quit at delivery.

the hardest part is just beginning.

paternal depression rates

8%

months 1-3

26%

months 3-6

paternal depression triples — right when leave ends and support disappears.

the 3-6 month mark is the danger zone. sleep regression hits. friends stop checking in. every other app has already quit. belay stays with you for 52 weeks after birth — because showing up doesn't stop at the summit.

the 3-6 month mark is the danger zone. sleep regression hits. friends stop checking in. belay stays for 52 weeks after birth. your partner will have support long after everyone else stops checking in.

The Ranger says: most apps stop at the summit. we don't. your trail is ready.

why i built this the partner who built this

I built Belay because I was that partner. Sitting in the OB waiting room, scrolling Reddit at 2am, asking "what can I do?" and seeing her eyes glaze over. Every app was built for her. Every book assumed I'd figure it out. Nobody told me what was coming — or how to show up when it did. So I built the guide I wish I'd had.

Kai, founder of Belay Kai, founder of Belay. dad. former clueless partner.

The trail ahead

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